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Transform Your custody battle with Betsi Smith

Divorcing a narcissistic individual can be more devastating than being married to one. It's an attack on your character, spirit, and financial well-being. The real casualties of this conflict are often the children. This type of divorce tends to be protracted, contentious, and anything but amicable.


In these situations, family courts may inadvertently perpetuate the turmoil by assuming both parties are equally to blame for the delays, effectively aiding the high-conflict parent who thrives in such chaos. Judges often admonish to "think of the kids," yet a narcissistic ex may lack the capacity to do so. Meanwhile, the protective parent's objections might be dismissed as overreactive or attempts to alienate the children from their other parent.


To outsiders, the severity of the situation might seem exaggerated. However, those who have experienced it know that this is not an ordinary divorce, born from what was never a normal marriage.


My personal commitment to empower and prepare targeted mothers for the long road ahead, I  help minimize the mental and financial devastation of a high conflict divorce and custody battle - legally, interpersonally and emotionally.  

Ready to Start Your Journey?

  • Minimize the emotional turmoil of custody battles and dealing with a high-conflict co-parent.
  • Learn to recognize and clearly describe behavioral patterns in terms understandable to the legal system.
  • Equip yourself to be a strong advocate and litigant for your children.
  • Enhance your ability to handle your ex-partner's abusive behaviors effectively.

Save on legal expenses by having documentation already prepared and, by understanding how the court processes and procedures work, and by fostering a productive relationship with your attorney.

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How To Annihilate a Narcissist: In the Family Court

How To Annihilate a Narcissist: In the Family Court

How To Annihilate a Narcissist: In the Family Court

 How To Annihilate A Narcissist: In The Family Court 


By Rachel Watson


If you are dealing with a controlling and abusive ex while navigating family court, it is understandable to feel worried, anxious, and frightened. A narcissistic abus can expertly hide their harsh behavior, using charm and deceit to sway others. It seems like no one hears you and your evidence is being overlooked by the court. 


It's crucial to take action quickly to improve your circumstances.

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Splitting

How To Annihilate a Narcissist: In the Family Court

How To Annihilate a Narcissist: In the Family Court

 

Splitting: Protecting Yourself While Divorcing Someone with Borderline or Narcissistic Personality Disorder


 By Bill Eddy & Randy Kreger 


Protect Yourself from Manipulation, False Accusations, and Abuse.







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Co-Parenting with a Toxic Ex

How To Annihilate a Narcissist: In the Family Court

Co-Parenting with a Toxic Ex

Co-parenting with a Toxic Ex: What to Do When Your Ex-Spouse Tries to Turn the Kids Against You


By Amy Baker & Paul Fine


 Protect your child from alienation and loyalty conflicts.








 

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STOP WALKING ON EGGSHELLS TAKING YOUR LIFEE BACK WHEN SOMEONE YOU CARE ABOUT HAS BPD

STOP WALKING ON EGGSHELLS TAKING YOUR LIFEE BACK WHEN SOMEONE YOU CARE ABOUT HAS BPD

STOP WALKING ON EGGSHELLS TAKING YOUR LIFEE BACK WHEN SOMEONE YOU CARE ABOUT HAS BPD

 

Stop Walking on Eggshells


Isn’t it time you stopped walking on eggshells? Learn how with this fully revised and updated third edition of a self-help classic—now with more than one million copies sold!


Do you feel manipulated, controlled, or lied to? Are you the focus of intense, violent, and irrational rages? Do you feel you are ‘walking on eggshells’ to avoid the next confrontation? If the answer is ‘yes,’ someone you care about may have borderline personality disorder (BPD)—a mood disorder that causes negative self-image, emotional instability, and difficulty with interpersonal relationships. 

 

Stop Walking on Eggshells has already helped more than a million people with friends and family members suffering from BPD understand this difficult disorder, set boundaries, and help their loved ones stop relying on dangerous BPD behaviors. This fully revised third edition has been updated with the very latest BPD research on comorbidity, extensive new information about narcissistic personality disorder (NPD), the effectiveness of schema therapy, and coping and communication skills you can use to stabilize your relationship with the BPD or NPD sufferer in your life. 

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the 48 laws of power

STOP WALKING ON EGGSHELLS TAKING YOUR LIFEE BACK WHEN SOMEONE YOU CARE ABOUT HAS BPD

STOP WALKING ON EGGSHELLS TAKING YOUR LIFEE BACK WHEN SOMEONE YOU CARE ABOUT HAS BPD

 The 48 Laws of Power


By Robert Greene


 In the book that People magazine proclaimed “beguiling” and “fascinating,” Robert Greene and Joost Elffers have distilled three thousand years of the history of power into 48 essential laws by drawing from the philosophies of Machiavelli, Sun Tzu, and Carl Von Clausewitz and also from the lives of figures ranging from Henry Kissinger to P.T. Barnum. This book is ideal whether your aim is conquest, self-defense, or simply to understand the rules of the game. 



 












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It's Not You: Identifying and Healing from Narcissistic People

STOP WALKING ON EGGSHELLS TAKING YOUR LIFEE BACK WHEN SOMEONE YOU CARE ABOUT HAS BPD

It's Not You: Identifying and Healing from Narcissistic People

 

SLAY the Bully: How to Negotiate with a Narcissist and Win  

It's Not You: Identifying and Healing from Narcissistic People


INSTANT NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER

From clinical psychologist and expert in narcissistic relationships Dr. Ramani Durvasula, a guide to protecting and healing yourself from the daily harms of narcissism


 It’s not always easy to tell when you’re dealing with a narcissistic person. One day they draw you in with their charm and charisma, the next they gaslight you, wreck your self-esteem, and leave you wondering, What should I have done differently? As Dr. Ramani explains in It’s Not You, the answer is: absolutely nothing.


 Just as a tiger can’t change its stripes, a narcissist will not stop manipulating and invalidating you, no matter how much you try to appease them. The first step toward healing from their toxic influence—and to protect yourself from future harm—is to accept that you are not to blame for their behavior.

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The Narc Decoder: Understanding the Language of the Narcissist

The Narc Decoder: Understanding the Language of the Narcissist

The Narc Decoder: Understanding the Language of the Narcissist

The Narc Decoder: Understanding the Language of the Narcissist


By Tina Swithin


 

  • Narcissistic Communication: Tina describes feeling confused by the communication with a narcissist, likening it to learning a foreign language.
  • Personal Experience: Reflecting on past red flags in the relationship, Tina details her journey and realized the extent of the issue when the marriage ended explosively.
  • Narc Decoder: In response to the challenges faced, Tina invented a ‘Narc Decoder’ to interpret the narcissist’s communication style.
  • Advocacy and Support: Tina Swithin, the author, has become an advocate for Family Court reform and supports those affected by narcissists through her books and non-profit work.

 

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SLAY the Bully: How to Negotiate with a Narcissist and Win

The Narc Decoder: Understanding the Language of the Narcissist

The Narc Decoder: Understanding the Language of the Narcissist

SLAY the Bully: How to Negotiate with a Narcissist and Win

 

 USA Today Bestseller


 Slay narcissists—the ultimate bullies—in negotiations by following this simple formula—developed by one of the top 1 percent of attorneys in the nation—a proven method to take you from victim to victory, without backlash! 


Whether your relationship is professional or personal, narcissists have a way of honing in on their prey that is unparalleled.  The path into hell is camouflaged, artfully concealed under lies and charm, red flags skillfully diverted away, until you finally realize that their tactics have left you feeling utterly drained to your soul. 


 In this book, globally recognized high conflict negotiation expert, and top attorney Rebecca Zung shares her revolutionary framework to SLAYing your negotiation with the narcissist.

By the time you're finished reading, you will know how to shift the dynamic of power and be more confident and empowered in every aspect of your life! 

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The Body Keeps the Score

The Narc Decoder: Understanding the Language of the Narcissist

The Body Keeps the Score

The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma 


By Bessel Van Der Kolk, M.D.


 Trauma is a fact of life. Dr. Bessel van der Kolk, one of the world’s foremost experts on trauma, has spent over three decades working with survivors. In The Body Keeps the Score, he uses recent scientific advances to show how trauma literally reshapes both body and brain, compromising sufferers’ capacities for pleasure, engagement, self-control, and trust. He explores innovative treatments—from neurofeedback and meditation to sports, drama, and yoga—that offer new paths to recovery by activating the brain’s natural neuroplasticity. Based on Dr. van der Kolk’s own research and that of other leading specialists, The Body Keeps the Score exposes the tremendous power of our relationships both to hurt and to heal—and offers new hope for reclaiming lives. 

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